He’s Not Interested, What Can Be Done?

So, you’ve got chatting to someone new, you thought things were going well and suddenly without warning... A loss of contact. Gutting, we know. Not only does this hurt one's feelings, but it also leaves you wondering what exactly that it is that keeps men running from your commitment and affection!

Well, the answer is clear.

Before getting involved with a partner again, it is important to ensure that your new potential spouse is up for the commitment just as much as you are, if not you are setting yourself up to fail from the outset. The main component when starting a long-term relationship is to go for men who are looking for the same relationship experience as you are.

Men are easily scared away when it comes down to committing to a relationship from the outset, which is the main reason so many people never get past the talking stage in this day and age. You must chat and get to know each other on a deeper level, expressing clearly what you are looking for from the relationship whilst going on romantic dates and trips out as often as possible. If not, you have no real prospect of taking steps to progress your relationship to the next level.

If he’s into you, you will feel it. Whether that’s in your gut instinct or in the way he acts, it will become apparent that he wants to get to know you more.

If not, several tell-tale signs can save you both heartache and time!

Arguably the best way to tell that he’s not into you is the way he acts when you are together. A man who has an interest in you will do all that he can to get to know you as quickly as possible. He will be attentive in conversation, giving you good eye contact throughout whilst adding his input to keep the conversation flowing. If not, you may receive blunt replies which you cannot fathom a reply to, ending the conversation and interest in him in one fell swoop.

Another way to gauge his interest is by taking into consideration how often he is available to spend time with you compared to how busy his daily schedule is. If a man has frequent opportunities to meet up but does not cease the initiative, it is highly likely he does not have the same feelings for you as you do for him.

A man who is interested in you will do everything he can to facilitate the number of times you see each other and increase the amount of quality time you spend together.

If a guy is not interested in you for the way you look, there is not very much that you can do. Yes, you can apply make-up and begin to eat healthier, but if you are not somebody’s type, you’re simply not somebody's type.

However, there are a few steps you can take now to make you more of a catch to men, universally.

The best way to increase the amount of attention you are receiving from men day to day - is to be bold!

Men are drawn towards women who know how to express themselves well, be that in what they wear, what they say or their choice of career. Outgoing women with the ability to communicate well have significantly more success when it comes to dating as those who do not. So, a brighter top that stands out from the crowd, more imaginative language in conversation and a beaming smile are up there with the best ways to increase the attention you are getting from guys daily.

So, you have got past the talking stage and have progressed onto the next stage of your relationship. Now is the time to ask yourself, do you want to spend the rest of your life with this man? Or is this just a bit of fun for the time being?

If it’s the latter, that’s your body's natural way of telling you he’s not the one.

If not, and you see yourself waking up next to him in years to come. Here are the main ways to tell he’s the perfect partner for you.

Firstly, in your perfect match you have share similar values and wishes regarding what you want from life, chat about children, your careers, health and where you see yourselves in 20 years. If you have similar answers, you are likely to be with the one you are highly compatible with and you should marry. If not, this is an early sign that things will not work out in the long run.

If you prefer to not meet men for dating online, and prefer the more traditional method of meeting face to face as our parents did, then do not worry! You are still able to attract partners offline using these subtle tips, despite the rise of online dating.

Going out on your own with a huge smile on your face is right up there with the best of all tips, you do not need to be with your single friends to attract the one. Instead, it is significantly better to be alone, as this shows you have bags of self-confidence and are open to meeting new people.

Initiating conversation whilst out is another leading factor in the number of men you meet. Men love being approached first by interested women (not that they will admit it) and this goes a long way to showing men you are available to begin dating and want to get to know them on a deeper level. If a man feels valued, he is highly likely to go above and beyond to ensure you see each other again!

Use this means-tested guide whenever you are not certain if a guy is genuinely interested in you! Let there be no more wasting time with men who fake it. Now that you know how to tell for sure you can enjoy the reward of being in a healthy relationship for years to come as a result.